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What are your conflict hooks?

What are your conflict hooks?

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  • Delivered Online

  • 1 hour

  • Beginner level


Understand and mitigate your own personal drivers of conflict

Have you ever said 'They really push my buttons' or 'I can't stand it when people...'?

That's the sound of you being 'hooked'. We all have values that we want to live by, and when they are challenged, that's when we are most likely to engage in a conflict. 

In this online workshop, Gemma will teach you the conflict hooks model so that you can identify your common hooks and how to handle them to reduce or prevent conflict. 

What you will get from this 60-minute session:

  • Self-awareness of your conflict hooks
  • Empathy for what may hook others
  • Confidence to diplomatically speak about conflict with others

How we will do it:

  • Exploration of how conflict hooks show up in teams
  • Learning how core values are inherent to conflict hooks
  • Identifying your own conflict hooks
  • Practice articulating your conflict hooks to others
  • Tips for how to use your self awareness to reduce or prevent conflict

This online session is designed to be as interactive or passive as you wish. You are most welcome to ask questions, share challenges and discuss your ideas. You are equally welcome to join with your camera off and just listen in.

This session will be held on zoom – you will receive the meeting link once you book your place.


Meet your trainer:

Hi, I’m Gemma Perella; a Personal Development Trainer and founder of The Self Leadership Initiative. The SLI is all about helping you to develop young leaders.

As a teenager in 2006 I stumbled across a leadership training programme that changed my life. I went from an introverted outsider to a confident and driven educator. Ever since, my mission has been inspiring and empowering young people to become the best versions of themselves.

Over the last 9 years I've been working with organisations that support young people. I deliver interactive and practical training programmes to equip students with the kinds of skills ‘they don’t teach you in school’ in order to help them become the confident, resilient and emotionally intelligent leaders that the world needs.


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